While putting together Bustle’s weeklong inquiry into the pleasure and pain of crushes, we noticed a few things. First, some of you are low-key freaks. Second, talking about crushes can bring people ...

It was 11:05 p.m. on Thursday, Jan. 23. Jack Parker and I were squished next to each other on my bed, fully clothed with goofy, nervous grins spread across our faces. We were giggling nonstop, partly ...